Decoding Girl Talk

OK so I was out with my friends on bank holiday Monday, shooting pool and drinking cheap drinks.

Unexpectedly one of our female friends walks in (she was meant to be on a date with her latest hot date). Its pretty obvious to everyone she is upset, it had turned out that the guy was a loser and giving her mixed signals or something equally as crazy.

Anyhow many drinking later the coded girl talk starts coming out.

"Where are all the *nice* guys?"

"Why can't I just find a *nice* guy?"

Now ok, fair enough she was pretty upset and the guy was probably a loser. But this sort of stuff really grinds on me, and I'm sure plenty of other guys.

See, she didn't mean she wanted a plain, stable, boring guy, who does?. What she actually meant was, why didn't that guy like me as much as I liked him. There is absolutely nothing wrong with saying that, there really isn't. Everyone has been in that position (myself.. far too many times).

She probably knows plenty of nice guys, plenty of guys who would really like to be her boy friend. But that's just not how it works. You have to be attracted to a person, everything else is second. Its definitely still important, but there has to be that attraction.

I challenge anyone to think of a couple who are not attracted to each other.

No one wants a nice boyfriend or girlfriend, everyone wants something special and lets not be afraid to say it.

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